#365Gratitude Day 242:Permit me some license

Poetic license that is.  

I had a really good day yesterday. I was up on hours, meaning a short day at work. I was making great strides on a tech thing I was working on, making the day move along nicely. ​

It was pleasantly warm out, instead of the searing, punishing heat we have been having all summer.  

Everything was perfect. 

And I was chatting with my girlfriend about it, and some spontaneous poetry broke out. 

 Me: I'm sitting outside having just eaten lunch out here.

Squee: What was lunch? How's outside? in 5 words each

Me: Swai, roast potatoes and veggies. A quiet bench, shady trees

Squee:  so lovely and effectively communicated

Sometimes, life is just perfect.

#365Gratitude Day 241:Mr. Not-Know-It-All

Yesterday I spent the majority of my day figuring out how to do something I didn't know. 

I had help. Lots of help.  

It was just a little thing, how to set a timer in JavaScript and then use it to do something important in a project I'm working on.  

When I first got going with it, I really overthought the problem, and was going to do this really heavy handed thing to solve it. Then I reached out to a co-worker who gave me some ideas, and I followed them.  

I had some good success doing so. Then I chased down more resources about other ways to solve my issue.  There was a lot of good material out there, which is awesome.  

Probably the biggest thing that proved helpful to me was letting go of my fear about not knowing the answer.  

After I finished my work day I did something similar by making a new recipe I had never tried before either (salmon and potato foil packets on the grill), which came out pretty good, but could use some tweaking the next time I make them.  

It's exactly that attitude that was the key to my getting anything done the whole day: it's okay not to know everything.  

#365Gratitude Day 240:What's the story, morning glory?

Yesterday morning, Valentalae climbed into bed with Missy and I, and I read her a story called The Grammarian's Five Daughters.

It was a story she suggested to me.  And it's a damn fine story, for children of any age.  I'm not going to tell you what it's about, but I will say that it concerns itself with the following things:

• Strong female characters
• Inclusive and realistic portrayal of LGBT characters
• Polyamory
• The magical power of having good grammar

Yep, good grammar.

Go read it, see for yourself.

#365Gratitude Day 239:A rad way to mark a birthday

This one is super sweet, but requires backstory and a sort of special dictionary. My little girl Valentalae has this Denmark thing.

It's not that she fetishizes everything to do with the country, its language, culture, and food.  (Although that is true, but not like in a sketchy appropriating way.)  Her love for Denmark is deep, earnest, and true.  She feels the same way about it as I do about Asian culture and philosophy.

One of the Danish things she loves is a kind of red currant berry pudding called rødgrød.  

I've had it actually. She's made it for me. It's quite delicious.

I also find the name simultaneously hard to pronounce and kind of silly. It's led to endless sorts of punning and wordplay between Vee and myself.  We also share that love of what she calls wordfuckery  with many of our friends. 

It's rather a regular past time on the Big Little Podcast SLACK, a sort of private chat room we hang out in. (ps, if you want to chat there, just let me know!) 

Another of Vee's funny made up words is to hallmark .  Hallmarking is engaging in that sort of schmoopy, mawkish, unapologetically sentimental display of affection that makes people want to brush their teeth from how sugary it is.   

We do a lot of hallmarking.  

So months ago on the slack, Vee and I are trading quips and puns, discussing rødgrød, and weirdly, the telepathic gorilla super villain Gorilla Grodd, from The Flash. 

I make this really bad pun about how if Grodd rode a skateboard he'd be a rad Grodd. 

Everyone groaned loudly, including Vee.  

But then one of our friends, Marky (heh, maybe Hallmarky would be more appropriate) messages me privately to let me know: 

a) as part of his Lego collecting building expertise he knows about a Grodd Lego figurine AND a mini skateboard he could ride.

b) he was going to hunt then down (they're quite rare) and send them to me for her.  

Which he did, and I hung onto and surprised Vee with for her birthday, as we lay in bed cuddling with Missy.  

All the hallmarks!​

#365Gratitude Day 238:Company when I'm not at the company

I'm fortunate enough to get to work from home a couple of days a week.  Sometimes, the pure solitude of it is bliss to me.  But sometimes, the quiet can be almost oppressive.  

Having a split schedule like this is good in a lot of ways.  It's easier to get people to do work at the house, I am often here for package deliveries, that sort of thing.  Plus, where I live and work is one of the most congested parts of the country, traffic-wise, and it's really nice to get a break from it.

Something really, really cool happened today though, that's never happened before.  Our girl Valentalae is visiting, and Missy's got the day off, and they, and one of my cats, Yang decided to keep me company as I work in my home office.

It's blissful.