Squee made us all breakfast, and we sat, and talked, and played carcasonne, and just... bonded. It was beautiful. There was this funny moment when we first set up the game that he offered the meeple to me and I went to pick, and right away went for the blue ones. (Because oceans, sharks, etc.) He got this little look of "oh well" on his face, because he's always the blue meeple. I immediately gave them to him, laughing, and said, "sharing is love." The three of us shared a knowing, warm, funny smile over it, and he was happy to have them back.
Then he totally kicked my ass in Carcasonne. Which was awesome! So awesome he did it twice. He's a genius at that game. It, for him, is like Scrabble is, for me. His big move is using the fields to do farming. I'm practicing, so I can get better.
Later on, the three of us went out to do kinky karaoke. I've never ever done karaoke before. In the car on the way there, we talked about what the place was like, and what songs they had. I asked about show tunes, then sang a bit of Red and Black from Les Miserables, which is like my go-to shower song, just because. It felt good to sing aloud in the car in front of people I knew and trusted, before going to a place to sing in front of total strangers.
Plus, we talked about kink in general, and getting out there and meeting people. Kit's kind of a shy guy, and he's just beginning to make inroads into the kink community. He's excited to meet people, connect, and see what's really out there. We had this awesome talk about what people get out of wearing diapers, and I totally threw myself under the example bus talking about why I particularly love to be in diapers, or diaper other people.