Masked-llama is a podcast listener. We've never met in person, but exchanged a few nice pieces of Fetlife mail. 

It's no secret that I really love much anything to do with sharks. I talk about that all over the podcast, and let's be honest, pretty much everywhere else too.  

It still always knocks me out when folks send me mail like the one he did the other day.  

http://www.blankietails.com/products/adult-shark-bl… sorry if you have been inundated with these, but I stumbled across it and thought you might dig this.

As I told him, I dig it indeed! People can be so thoughtful. 

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AuthorMako Allen
Categories365 Gratitude

I was having a bad day the other day. Or rather, I had started off that way. I had a bunch of things on my mind, worries, expectations, all sorts of shenpa. ​

Then, I remembered what I had done just a few hours before.  When I woke ​up, my very first verbalized thought of the day was, "Oh good, another one."

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Another what? Another day to be alive, experience whatever the day has for me, good or bad. 

It's something I have done literally  every single day  since 1 Saturday morning when I was 13 years old.

I can't tell you the exact day I started.  I can't even tell you why  I started. I don't know. This was decades before I had ever heard of mindfulness, taoism, Buddhism, Alan Watts, or Pema Chodron.

But I'm glad I did.  When I really turn and look at it, that long ago day was the beginning of my practice.  

Some days that practice goes so smoothly. I'm at ease, peaceful, content. Other days, it's like falling out of a tree and hitting every branch on the way down, before landing hard, on my back with the wind knocked out of me.  

That practice is happening, I'm engaged in doing it, all the time .  

When I remembered this, and saw the shenpa I was hooked by, I gently smiled, and laughed at myself. 

I felt instantly better.  

 

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AuthorMako Allen
Categories365 Gratitude

Lauren is my editor-for-life, and my really good friend. We've known each other for years. When we work together, it's absolutely   SERIOUS BUSINESS

But she can also be really, really silly.  

"Healing boo-boos with nom-noms" 

"Healing boo-boos with nom-noms" 

I love this. I love her. My writing is serious stuff, and she's an amazing editor. But she's also silly and lighthearted and shares my love of the ridiculous.  

I couldn't think of a better purrson to doctor my writing.  

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AuthorMako Allen
Categories365 Gratitude

A few weekends ago I was down visiting Maya and Michael in North Carolina, to go to a Black Violin concert, together.  This was during a big snowstorm, too.  I got out of town early, and avoided most of the bad stuff that hit the DC area.  North Carolina was a whole lot less snowed upon, although they got plenty.   

When we went to the concert, I did have to scrape my car, Appa, off so we could go.  Navigating the secondary roads in their neighborhood was not very fun, either.  But once we hit the main roads, we seemed to be good.   

We drove for an hour or so to East Carolina University for the concert, where there was no snow on the ground at all.   

Looks like the whole trip was going to be without incident, right? 

Well, almost.

We decided to get some Waffle House breakfast-for-dinner after the concert.  Appa had this giant sheet of icy sleetsnowcrud (sure, it's a word) stuck to his roof.  I got on the highway, and got up to high speed, not realizing that in the slightly warmer temperatures the car had sat in while we were at the concert, that icy roof-hat had melted some.  Enough for the wind to get under it, and rattle it, seriously thumping the roof before it came flying free.

It didn't hit anyone else except us, but the weirdest thing happened when it did.  The whole car rattled loudly, and one of my overhead dome light covers cracked, and fell right into Michael's lap! 

Thankfully, the dome light itself still worked. 

Appa's fancy new car part

Appa's fancy new car part

And just a few days ago, I had my mechanic look into replacing the part, and it was only about $20.  Whew! 

 

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AuthorMako Allen
Categories365 Gratitude