I stumbled across this interesting Tumblr blog the other day, http://submissiveguycomics.tumblr.com. (High chance of NSFW, you've been warned.) I started following it with Flipboard, and even flipped a thing or two into a Flipboard magazine for myself. This morning, I had a good close look at one of the images, and had to do a double-take, because there was just SO MUCH THERE that spoke to me.
Here's the image.
A dominant woman plays video games on her couch, resting her feet on her mostly undressed submissive guy, who is playing the game with her.
OK, it's adorable. But, let's do a little close analysis, shall we?
Five things really jumped out at me in this picture.
- Submissive guy is sitting on the floor, and is in his underwear. This is something I do a lot. At home, I vastly prefer to sit on the floor when I sit doing stuff with Missy, and I like being in a t-shirt and diaper or undies, sometimes without the t-shirt at all. I think I've got a mild case of CFNM fetish (nudity behind the link, duh!).
- Note that upon careful inspection you can see that our friend here has just recently got a spanking. It might have been for fun, or punishment. Both are great.
- Submissive guy's mistress/mommy is sitting above him, and resting her feet and legs on him. This is one of my major buttons. I love being held down, love touch as a love-language of affection, too. I'm always laying all over Missy, and others I care for, and love when they do it to me, too. Especially people I feel submissive to.
- This is not a sex scene. It's aftercare, after the spanking. They're playing video games. (Which Missy and I LOVE TO DO.) BUT....the key thing in this particular interaction is that the fact she's resting on him/holding him down is not the primary focus of what they're doing, it's just part of the deal, organic, intrinsic to what they're doing. That, for me, ratchets this up from mildly arousing to HOLY MOLEY I'M ON FIRE. It smacks of authenticity, another big fetish of mine.
- Check out what submissive guy is doing with his tongue. He's got it poking out of the corner of his mouth, because he's focused, paying attention to the game. This is something I do all the time when I'm little, and concentrating hard on something. That's what caught my attention in the first place.
I'm just beside myself with glee at this picture. I can't wait to go show it to Missy.