Okay, so that's not really a word. What I'm talking about is sexual checklists. Through some reddit-browsing I stumbled across Mojo Upgrade, a website where you can compare sexual interests with your partner.
I've seen things like this before, but this is particularly slick. It's a pretty good tool. I do think some things are missing - I'd love to see it delve even deeper into fetishes. But it's a great place to start. It's easy to do, and fun.
I'm glad sex-positive stuff like this is out there.